• Is It cause he love you?
• You Love him?
• He deserves it?
Let me say a lil sum sum, did home boy put a ring on that finger?
So What does it mean to give your mind to a man? Wow that's actually a hard question! I think I know why it's such a hard question... Because NOT MANY WOMEN ARE DOING IT!! This is a important step many women forget to do. It's TALKING! Yep I said it. Talking. When you first meet someone you talk right? Well the same applies to when you are interested in a certain guy. You communicate! Communicate with him. Get to know everything! His background, his exciting moments, fears, his purpose, what he plans on doing in five years from now. Meet his family, find out how he respond to hardship, what he likes in a woman! I'm telling you... Getting to know someone takes years. And that's how you build a great relationship. As you guys start to just communicate no cuddling, no touching because this will rise up temptation #YouKnowWhatIMean. But as you guys communicate...
You start to bond. There is power in bonding this way, because you guys start to fall in love with who God made you to be, this man will soon start to fall in love with your inner beauty. Tell me something... Which will he truely fall in love with, a woman who can't control herself and gives it up? Or a woman who respects herself and who isn't giving it up till he put a rock on it?
Now you might say... Well if imma be like that then I ain't gone have nobody! Honey this it GOOOOOOOOD! This is good because those man who aren't willing to wait... Then they are NOT your future husband. True love waits!
If he truely loves you and God put you guys together , then he will respect you and your standards. Some men say "oh baby, I respect that" then turn around trying to get yo penties down! Ladies, so you have to watch out for them. They are so sneaky! A man will fall in love with a woman who doesn't give her body to him first. Yes, I know this caught a lot of you girls off track huh? We been lied to! We've been told that if we give him our Most Prized possession... This will make him love you! WRONG! this will bring you HELL that's all. Because there's soul ties when you hook up like this. It goes like this... After he gets it from you, he don't see you the same (you didn't let him get a chance to fall in love with your inner self), he starts to treat you different than before, he starts to ack different, it's hurting you, but you don't care because you "luv" him (notice I said "luv" because it's not REAL love, it's those soul ties that's holding you to him), you start to go through hell with what this man is putting you up with for years. So what's so good about lowering your worth, giving a man your most prized possession for an hour, then going through HELL the rest of your life? you see a man judges you to see your worth by the way you dress, act, and at what time you give it up. If you dress showing off all of your goodies, he already know what type you are. He knows you have low-self esteem, that you have to show off your body to get attention. Men loves it when a woman covers up herself when she dresses
. It shows that she is confident in who she is as a person, that she don't have to dress like a stripper. It shows she respects herself. And he will defiantly show you respect too. If a lady is acting wild like cursing, drinking, smoking, dancing wild... He will not want to wife you. Man thinks it's so unactractive when a woman drinks, smoke, use foul language like they have no class! So ladies if we are doing some of the above... Let's straighten up our act and have put on class ;) our Father said " ...have a quiet and gentle spirit" 1 Peter 3:4. If you don't know what this mean please comment below this blog. In the mean time I want y'all to leave with this image; say your treasure is your body, and you have the keys to unlock your treasure. So when a man comes by and ask you for the keys to get a piece of your treasure, you give him the keys, now you have one less gold left in your treasure. Now imagine how many times you let a man take your treasure... Oh man! You almost empty! Ain't nomore precious gold left for the man God created for you! Stop letting these man steal what's for your future husband. Give that key to God. Say "Lord, in Jesus name I give you the key to my treasure, please don't let anyone else have that key except the man you've designed for me". Now if God have those keys you better trust that he is going to be faithful to his son he has for you and NEVER give away your key to the wrong man. Now I want y'all to lock up that treasure and give that key to your Daddy in Heaven :) remember girls... You are very rare if you stand on waiting to have sex. A man sees you as precious and so Worthy when you do this. Don't be like the other female... Giving it up So easily. Be Gods princess and wait! Now God has already told us to not even have sex before marriage because it's sin. It says "the acts of the sinful nature are obvious: sexual immortality, impurity, and debauchery..." So it's really about time to get ourselves together. We can't just shack no more! We have to start carting ourselves as Gods Princesses! I do have to say... I am not perfect, I have sloped into temptation and failed. I have repented for this and God has washed me clean! :) I feel so new now. I encourage you guys to repent to God our father of these things that are not like him. Not just sex... EVERYTHING! God loves you baby :)
and I do too <3



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